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My Unsolicited Advice To Anyone Entering (or soon entering) The Work Force

Posted by Shane on July 19, 2009

The world out there is tough and it is only going to get tougher. Globalization is a reality and despite the oft good yet maligned intent of our President and Congress, globalization is here to stay. As Thomas Friedman would say, the world is flat and there is no going back.

The U.S. once heralded the advent of globalization. There would be new demands for our products, more capital to invest in our markets, and many more places to bring in the cheap goods for our consumption. We learnt instead that globalization also brought more competition (from nations with often less stringent regulations), an influx of imported goods that could spell the demise of their respective domestic industry, an increased demand for limited commodities such as food, oil, and natural resources (driving up their prices), and more importantly (for you and me) an increase in the supply of labor which saw everyone, everywhere competing for the jobs Americans once took for granted.

If you are looking for a job now or in the coming years, or just started your career directly post-graduation, I have four simple suggestions that might help you navigate the world you find yourself in.

  1. Forget job security: That idea that you need to go into a stable field and work for one employer for 50 years and retire on a pension plan is over. Likewise, the other prevailing idea that you need to only enter industries that have stupendous job security and stay within such industry is erroneous. In this contemporary time of uncertainty, everything is dynamic and old industries will die out if and when they fail to adapt. What will be required to succeed in this new age is not the search for security but rather the relentless pursuit of skills and talents that can be adapted and customized to allow one to compete on a dynamic global marketplace.
  2. Take risks: Since we were children, we have been told that risk taking was dangerous and it is best to avoid risk. There is even a field named risk management whose moniker implies that risks is so passé that we would do best to remove it from all activities. The truth is that the old conceptions (or at least the conception we were taught growing up) were wrong in their definition of risk. Risk isn’t necessarily exposing oneself to adverse effects but rather it is proceeding when the definitive outcome is not yet known. In order to succeed, one needs to be able to learn to identify, choose, and live with acceptable risk. One that stays inside the comfort zone that has been given will not bear forth much fruit in this brave new world. Only by daring to venture outside of convention can only hope to avoid becoming obsolete and caught with outdated ideas. Ask yourself; What’s the worst that can happen? What is the best that can happen? Take risks that can expose you to differential outcomes, learn from your experience and prosper from the exploration.
  3. Collaborate but watch your back: If there is one thing that is becoming apparent, it is the need to collaborate and work as a member of a diverse team to solve the new and challenging problems that affect mankind. With the flattening of the world, the US can no longer pretend that our isolationist techniques can solve the problem of the multitude without the need to sit at the table and collaborate with others. In saying this, cooperation should only go so far. At the end of the day, one needs to make sure that one’s demands are being met even if achieving those goals takes one away from the table. As a mentor once told me, “If you cannot find someone to watch your back, it is time to move.”
  4. Keep learning. Never stop learning: This is perhaps the most important advice of them all. It is the diversity of knowledge that will bring the greatest chance of survival. As industry, life and communication matures, it becomes easy to get lost behind the constant changes that occur while watching one’s livelihood disappear. Education, and not always necessarily in the formal sense, will help one adapt as the essence of success changes. Education will bring new skills, knowledge and talents that allows for seamless integration across numerous field in various capacities. For this reason, it is crucial to never stop learning. If you find that the constant repetition of tasks is stifling your quest for knowledge, find a new job, learn a new trade, or even better yet, find a way to do the job faster, quicker and/or cheaper.

Some may complain that this new world is not fair but I tell you that it is the fairest that the world has ever been. We are watching as success is no longer determined by your family name, or your skin tone, or which country you were born. The American dream of rags-to-riches is catching on and billions of people are looking for that chance their ancestors never had. They are looking to compete; make sure you are also.

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His Story

Posted by Shane on June 18, 2009

The story goes a long way back, probably all the way back to the day that I first laid eyes on her as she worked in the dispatch office at Hopkins. There was just something about her that intrigued me and I had to get to know more about this girl…and I did, but in the interest of time, I might as well skip the story a bit ahead. A more suitable starting point would perhaps be the last two weeks of my spring semester at Penn, right as I was getting ready for the last of my finals.

At this point, I had already made the decision that I would propose and I was eternally committed, especially given that the engagement ring sat on my desk as I prepped for my last finals. We had now been away from each other for a full year but the bond that held us together never faded even through the distance and the time zone difference. Through the trips back and forth and the late night Skype calls, we affirmed that we were going to go through this together, come what may. As I sat at my desk, I contemplated how I was going to plan the proposal. The first idea that popped into my head was that I would have to call her closest friends and share the news with them. I did warn them that I wanted to keep the proposal a secret but I wanted them to be available to answer her phone call in order to bask in her happiness after the proposal – or whatever it is girls do with each other after one of them becomes engaged.

After I shared the news with her friends, and also my friends since I could not keep it too well a secret, I started to envision what I wanted the proposal to resemble. Since I still had to fly to California for the proposal, I knew that maintaining specifics was impossible as I was still a bit unfamiliar with the area. One thing was certain – Daris and I were both traditional in our mannerism and I had to involve her family in the proposal if I wanted a hint of tradition. Plus, there had to be steak involved; Daris and I both love steak.

After the last of my finals, I flew to Florida to meet up with Daris. We had both flown to Florida to attend my friend’s wedding (Congrats Cuyler & Amanda), and we were flying back to California together where I would spend my vacation. During my time in California, we should celebrate the three-year anniversary of the day when we came together and this was the day that I would propose to her. While in California, I informed her mother of the news and set about planning the day. We (Daris’ mother and I) spent the day walking about Old Town in Pasadena until we found the perfect restaurant, the perfect location, and even brainstormed about the perfect way to include her family in the proposal, all very perfect.

The 14th of May fell on a Thursday and Daris had already taken the day off from all her prior scheduled activities. I had asked to spend the day with her under the guise of our three-year anniversary. We were to spend the whole day together doing numerous activities but life got in the way and Daris was pulled into handling some personal and trying family matters. I tried to console her during this time because I knew that I wanted her, no, needed her to be in the best of spirits before we headed out for the restaurant that night. By the time she resolved all the day’s issues, we were running a bit late and I started to panic, as I did not want to fall behind our schedule. The tardiness, coupled with a bit of anxiety on my part, got me skittish and Daris now endeavored to get me to relax, a stark reversal from earlier in the day.

The restaurant was a perfect as when I saw it the first time. We had arrived at the Arroyo Chop House and Daris started to notice the little extras the restaurant did to better accommodate us. The atmosphere was amazing and the food was delectable, yet even better than all that was the company. Daris and I were happy to be together celebrating three years since we met each other. Those were some arduous years filled with their crests and troughs but we made it and we knew that more was still to come. We were going to enjoy being in each other’s presence and forget the world for one night.

Following a scrumptious dinner, I informed Daris that we were to have dessert at a different location and we set off on the new adventure. As soon as we arrived and were nearer to the prearranged spot, I asked Daris if she would do everything I asked from this point herein, and not ask any questions. She replied in the affirmative, and then I asked her to close her eyes. As soon as they were closed, I started to recite the lines I had written as I carefully escorted her down the pathway to where her family stood waiting.

“Sweetie, I just want to tell you how lucky I am to have met you and to have you in my life. I know that there have been a lot of ups and downs in our lives (mostly ups though) but I know that you are nothing short of my everything. I have found my true love and I never want to be apart from you. God has put us together for a reason and I will live everyday for that reason.”

At this point, I ask her to open her eyes and she sees her family standing in front of her and she immediately becomes hysterical. She immediately rushes to close her eyes as I say,

“Sweetie, your family is here for the same reason that I am, to hear your answer to a very important question.”

I get down on one knee, and I ask,

“Daris, Will You Marry Me?”

Ecstatically, she screams, “Yes, Yes, Yes”… We hug and kiss and she slowly whispers in my ear “I love you”.

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